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First, you need to get clear on what your partner wants. Do they want to have sex with someone else just once?
Do they want to have sex with one other person regularly? Do they want to have sex with multiple other people? Do they want to have a romantic relationship with someone else? Is there a particular person they want to have sex with? Is their desire to have sex with someone else based on their attraction to that person? Or are they seeking a particular kind of Flintstone MD milf personals experience? Do they have a particular kind of sex or encounter in mind?
Is there any way you could do something with them that would satisfy their desire? Are they planning to have sex with someone else?
Is this something they feel like they need? Is it something they would only do if you were okay with it?
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Are they telling you because they want you to know how they feel? How pressing is their desire? Do they need an answer from you? How soon? Does your partner want their relationship with you to change? Next, you need to get clear with yourself on what you want.
If you were expecting a Hawesville man needs some action relationship, hearing that your partner wants to Wife wants hot sex Westmoreland sex with someone else can be quite confusing.
And since most of our models for relationships are monogamous, you might not have a clear idea of what a non-monogamous relationship can look like or how it could work. Take some time for self-reflection. You can think, journal, or talk it out with a therapist or friend. You might also find it helpful to read one of the many fine books about nonmonogamypolyamoryor unconventional relationships.
Here are a few specific questions to think about:. What are the most important parts of your relationship? How would your partner having sex with someone else change these things?
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Do you have any desire to have sex with someone other than your partner? To have a romantic relationship with someone else? Does that change how you feel about your partner?
How important is a sense of fairness to you? If your partner has sex with someone else, is it important you also can or do? Are there things that would Beautiful older woman looking xxx dating Nampa Idaho it easier or harder for you to have your partner have sex with someone else?
Would you prefer to meet the person or never find out who they are? Then, get clear with your partner on what you both want.
Maybe you realize that you would both be happy to be in an open, polyamorous relationship. At the end of the day, your partner only Sex personals IL Rantoul 61866 to decide what they do and you only get to decide what you do. By communicating with each other, though, you also get to make a more informed decision, with a fuller understanding of what the possible of your actions will be. If your partner wants to have sex with someone else, they get to decide if they are going to do that.
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