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The whole package really. I want to say he liked me back—I mean, he kissed me, and I feel like that means like-like, right? But the second anyone came around, he called me ugly and fat and made jokes about me.
And this is how most of my relationships have gone over the years. For a long time, I thought I just had horrible taste in men.
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